Racism fatigue? I have a couple Black coworkers who talk about how they experience racism every day at work. I don’t see any of it. I suppose if they were close enough to me, they might be able to tell me a daily story. That would be exhausting to me, especially since our institution doesn’t change easily. I can’t imagine how exhausting it must be for them! As a white person living in a racist world I can opt out of taking in the extent of daily racism. A white person married to a Black persona couldn’t do that without creating a distance between them. So yes, the husband definitely should get some training, but all of us white folks should too.