Hi Laila. I did write about male identity in a longer essay about my complicity in the Indian Boarding Schools. Scroll down to the part about men, if you must, but the point of the piece is the intersection of each of those identities, so I think you might enjoy the other parts.

https://medium.com/age-of-awareness/how-i-am-complicit-in-indian-boarding-school-abuses-1843faae12c4