Farm Friday, June 23rd, 2023
Happy Birthday, Mom!
It has been so hot and dry that it feels like Arizona moved north to Wisconsin. We will drink full water bottles and then be parched an hour later and frantically slurping water from the garden hose. This is the kind of heat that wears you out, so by the end of the day, it feels like you have worked two days. Every time summer storms have come by in the last six weeks, they have veered around us or only hit us with a sprinkling of water.
On the other hand, it is good weather to kill weeds and things are looking pretty good, weed-wise. When we hoe and the weeds are exposed to the blazing sun, they don’t stand a chance. Most of the planting is done, and we don’t have harvesting to do, so I have been able to focus on weeding and watering.
Since it feels like we have turned the corner on the season, we can start making things look nice. We haveour mower back and I keep threatening to get out the string trimmer.
In terms of writing news, there is no news. I did publish my monthly genealogy column — this month I focused on medieval German history. Fun stuff!
I read an amazing piece by Yael Wolfe and I have been thinking about it all week. She says that during the last four years when she has been writing about sex on Medium and in other places, the men she has interacted with have been almost universally an utter disappointment. Her essay reminded me of the first days of the Me Too movement when literally every woman I know came out as a survivor of some sort of sexual harassment or assault. The scope of the issue is almost too overwhelming to consider.
As a man, I keep wanting to say, “but, but, but… not all guys!” But Yael and others seem to confirm that the shittiness extends to so many men that it might as well be all guys. Her essay has me examining my own past interactions with women. I’d like to write a response, but I would want to do it well, so it might have to wait until I have more time.